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Name: Wallis
Years old: l am not sixty yet

I am a first time mom of a wonderful 9 month old and he is the greatest thing ive ever done, but the pregnancy left me almost 70lbs over weight.

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Anonymous May 1, at AM. So I guess my question to jes, would be where is the line? Human beings were not deed to be overweight. It it nice to see younger women of a heavier nature with such a positive outlook. You are allowed to have your opinions, but this blog is a safe space for all bodies to learn to love themselves. I'm printing it out and when I feel like crap I'm going to read it and remember - I'm fucking amazing.

Easier said than done, I get it, but still so very necessary. You have answered one of those questions that has plagued me my whole life. Being overweight is not healthy. What do you think? You are one gorgeous gal!!!

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I've been over weight for quite sometime and I just cannot get dates with anybody. Thom muss April 30, at PM. If we can rely on ourselves for worthiness, respect, acceptance and such, we may find it easier to do the things we want to do to be healthier and happier because we can do them not for external confirmation and approval but for ourselves. And if I enjoy a woman's company, then I am physically attracted to them, regardless of what they look like.

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He just straight out loves me for me. We love you fat, please love us skinny. I mentioned in the above comment that I don't have the experience to write about that since I've never been "skinny", but all of this applies to all body types! I was afraid that I would never have a boyfriend or that I would have to date men that weren't right for me, because they were the best I could get.

Elyse Chatterton March 19, at AM. Michelle April 30, at PM. Unknown April 30, at PM. Being the 'skinny bitch' is not what you might think it is. Whenever I make an absolutist statement, there is always a disagreement.

Conventionally pretty women, somewhat overweight women, somewhat skinny women, women with faces that aren't what we're told is classically attractive. I am finally liking what I see in the mirror, still a work in progress though. I would add since I play for both teams that girls can also find you sexy AND you can bang hot girls.

I know people with anorexia that have the same struggles and thought systems.

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The art of good conversation is dying, and friendship is key to any relationship. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and you are more than a body. I've addressed a lot of this in other posts, but didn't feel like this simple one was the place.

Thank you for giving this to me. I want to commend you on the things you say. Terri April 30, at AM. Exactly what you said above: I thought I could find some one who would love me in spite of my body.

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Surprisingly enough, this method wasn't very effective. Lilly April 30, at PM. What's even better is that he thinks I'm gorgeous, just the way I am. Cellulite ON my cellulite, I swear. All images by the incredible Liora K. I would always try to stand up or elongate my body so I could avoid my rolls from being seen, and I would just always be uncomfortable and upset with myself.

Jes, this was really great to read.

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Thank you for this post, I'm going to bookmark it and go back to it when I need it. It's all about what the media deams hot or attractive and its ruined the world. It increases the risks for a myriad of health issues. A totally necessary slap in the face. And art is beautiful. I was having such a terrible day. So right. I can relate to all of this, especially the one about a guy picking you up and not being injured as a result. It may take time, but the more you do it, the more you will come to look at your own body as a work of art.

Some of the pictures are hard for me to look at but most of them I was stunned at how beautiful they are. Only one disagreement. I know that I need to be more forgiving, but it can be very difficult sometimes. I tend to recommend a photo shoot to anyone I know who is uneasy with their appearance and hook them up with a photographer that I know will do them justice. To keep this brief: as a fat woman I am constantly reminded that I am talented, intelligent, and special.

We all need that message. At the same time, we shouldn't hate ourselves nor claim to be beautiful. I know women also see the over-emphasis on physicality and it can be discouraging in the dating arena. Sorry if my words offend, but this blog felt very offensive to me.

I was very apprehensive when I found out it was going to be a sexy themed photo shoot and almost didn't do it. I love this article.

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I need to hide my arms. I don't know. When I finally reached thirty, my metabolism slowed down and I gained weight. I'm super tall, as well as kind of fat. Thankfully she is so flexible.

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Thanks so much. Now I will concede that the first level of attraction that most guys recognize is physical beauty.

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It took someone telling me that I seem very confident when I didn't think I was confident at all. I'm terrified that maybe my personality isn't what it's chalked up to be, that it isn't my winning feature at all. My self-consciousnesses is so bad that i wouldnt let my picture be taken even with my son, until a good friend pointed out that if i kept it up my son would never have any pictures of me.

My partners treat our relationship like a secret.

I mention this because it's important to know that the standard of beauty that we are taught doesn't actually exist. So many times I lay and bed thinking he is just lying and that he'll love me more if I'm thin, but because of this blog, I know those thoughts are bullshit. A big girl who feels sexy and loves her body, and knows how to enjoy herself in the bedroom.

From struggles with pornography to the mistaken idea that men constantly need sex, I know the emphasis on the physical is a ificant struggle for men. Okay, okay. Manda April 30, at PM. At last people are minded their own business.

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I have been called "thick" by appreciative men and "skinny, white chick" by women at war with their own bodies. Its NOT your place to tell others how they should dress or feel about how they look. Being a fat girl, I clicked on it out of curiosity.

I really needed to hear this today. We are happy together and have a great sex life. But I have other stuff going for me. If that's you in the photo, you look lovely. I'm now pregnant with our twin boys.

What I feel is important to promote is that we should be aware of our size, whether under or overweight.

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